Last night I met some friends at a bar called "Dubliners" to watch the superbowl. It was packed with Americans (but not as packed as the gay bar!), so we couldn't go much farther than just inside the door. It was really cool, though, to be in a place where everyone was speaking English and watching football :) I was with my friend Carolyn, but her boyfriend was also there, so a lot of the time I just talked to random people or just watched the game.
At one point, these two men (40 or more years old) came in. They were talking to a guy that's in our group.. bought him a couple drinks.. they seemed like nice guys. Later, as i'm just watching the game, one of those guys started talking to me, about the game, studying, etc. His name was Dan, from New York, and in Spain with his friend, Renee, the other guy. So he introduced me to him.. Renee was from Berlin and an opera singer! He was in Madrid to perform the next night. A 5 HOUR opera. Holy cow. After talking for a while, Dan told me he was going by himself to watch Renee, but if I wanted to go, I was welcome to. A free opera in the Teatro Real! How cool. Of course I wanted to. So I gave him my cell number.. and he gave me his so we could meet up to go!
Then Dan started talking to Carolyn, so Renee started talking to me. He said something (in his German accent) like "I saw you and I wanted to talk to you, but I'm not American, so I don't know how to just go up to a girl and start talking.." (uh.. ok? I'm thinking.. weird) "Dan, though is my 'teacher' " he laughed, "he said he'd introduce us." Then he said, "because you're beautiful, you weren't talking to anyone, and I wasn't talking to anyone.. so.. 'shrug' ". I'm thinking.. uh.. is this old man ... flirting with me? He's been drinking.. but not THAT much. Yikes. Ok, how do I get out of this tactfully? I started talking to this guy *my age* from South Carolina, and then later Renee asked me if I wanted something to drink. "No, thanks, but I have to leave soon" I said (which was true.. it was getting really late and I still had an hour trip home ahead). So I said bye to people.. and on the way out I got Dan's attention, told him I had to head out, and he said he hoped I'd make it to the opera. Then I said by to Renee, who ended up taking my hand and giving it a few kisses, with the guise of just saying bye, etc.. but totally weird.
Crap. I wanted to do the opera thing. I was reasoning that I wouldn't be with the weirdo.. but still.. maybe if Carolyn came with me? Sooo, the opera was today, and as it happens, I was just too busy chatting with Jared to call the guy. I'm totally ok with that :)
man, two weird nights in a row.